Archive for August, 2010

Joe Sterling’s thoughts on Navigating Grief..

August 23rd, 2010 | no comments

Happy Monday all,

I wanted to share an article with you this morning, written by Joe Sterling, News Editor for CNN Newswire. Click on the link to view:

My Faith: Navigating the land of grief since my son’s death

It was written a couple of weeks ago, but I thought it was worthy of passing along. It touched me in a way I find hard to explain. His descriptors about the changes that come and stay in one’s life following the loss of a child were so accurate, and hit pretty close to home for me. As he wrote about moments where he cries without warning, I felt a huge lump in my throat, thinking about the moments that I too, am reduced to tears when a memory surfaces, for no particular reason.

I am a member of his club, one of the outsiders that truly understand the difference between what is trivial and what is important, having learned the hard way.

Today, I am thankful for Joe Sterling. His courageous and honest account of life as a bereaved parent shines as a light to the rest of us and tells us we are not alone.

Have a great one,

Kelly

Wisdom From Old Yeller

August 21st, 2010 | no comments

Well, hello!

Long time no blog….I’ve been working on some things, taking some time to breathe and live and figuring out where I go from here. More to come about that a little later…but for now, I wanted to share this quote with you. It pretty much sums up my entire life and I thought you might like it too…..

That was rough…. Thing to do now is try and forget it…. I guess I don’t quite mean that. It’s not a thing you can forget. Maybe not even a thing you want to forget…. Life’s like that sometimes… Now and then for no good reason a man can figure out, life will just haul off and knock him flat, slam him agin’ the ground so hard it seems like all his insides is busted. But it’s not all like that. A lot of it’s mighty fine, and you can’t afford to waste the good part frettin’ about the bad. That makes it all bad…. Sure, I know – sayin’ it’s one thing and feelin’ it’s another. But I’ll tell you a trick that’s sometimes a big help. When you start lookin’ around for something good to take the place of the bad, as a general rule you can find it. ~From the movie Old Yeller

 

The wisdom in those simple words….this point is what I’ve been trying to articulate for a full year. Does this mean I am simply long winded?
Hope you enjoy it….have a satisfying Saturday,
Kelly